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Does a Young Adult Need a Will?

Posted by ANGELA RICH HARTMANN | May 07, 2025 | 0 Comments

As our client—and as a parent—you understand that having a comprehensive estate plan ensures your children will be taken care of in the event of your passing. But what if something happens to your child? Should they have a will, too? If they do not, what happens then?

These are some of the questions a parent might ask themselves and their child when broaching the topic of estate planning. While it may not be the most comfortable conversation, encouraging your child to step out of their comfort zone and consider their legacy can help them transition to adulthood.

Motivations for a Young Person to Get a Will

When your child turns 18, they become a legal adult and can create a will. Although this is one of the less glamorous aspects of being an adult, it can foster a sense of independence and control over one's actions and decisions.

The percentage of people who have an estate plan is low across all age groups. Oddly enough, however, the percentage of young adults with a will increased from 16 percent in 2020 to 24 percent in 2024, according to research from Caring.com.[1] Among the 18- to 34-year-old cohort, these were the top motivators for getting a will[2]:

        Media coverage (34 percent)

        Family expansion (34 percent)

        Home purchase (28 percent)

        Current events (26 percent)

        Upcoming travel (22 percent)

Most Young Adults Own Some Traditional and Digital Assets

It should be emphasized that even if your child does not own many possessions, they likely have items of value, such as a bank account, a pet, a vehicle, or personal belongings (including collectibles, art, jewelry, heirlooms, or memorabilia). They could also have an inheritance they are already in possession of or that you are managing for them through a family trust.

While you likely have a good sense of the monetary and tangible assets your children own, their online, digital assets may be less familiar to you, but just as accurate to them—and in some cases, just as valuable. Digital assets are worth real-world money and include the following types of assets:

        Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies

        Non-fungible tokens (NFTs)

        Funds in PayPal, Venmo, and other payment apps

        Money owed to them from selling products through an online store such as Amazon or Etsy

        Rewards program points

        Monetized content channels that produce ad revenue

        Website domain names

        Copyrighted digital works

        Online wagering and sports betting account funds

It is worth noting that a young adult may also have other digital assets that are valuable from a sentimental perspective, such as extensive photo or video libraries stored in a digital cloud.

Explain to your child where the estate in estate planning comes from. An estate consists of everything a person owns at the time of their death. A young person may think they do not have enough money and property to warrant a will, but in terms of the law, a person can have an estate even if they die with $1 to their name.

And if your young adult child owns anything of value—even if it has only sentimental value—and cares about what happens to it, they should consider creating a will.

Why Everyone Needs a Will

Parents who want to encourage their child to create a will can start by discussing the first step—taking inventory and making a list of all their items and accounts. Next, you can raise the question of what would happen to these things if they were to pass away.

When discussing the importance of a will, you should stress what occurs when somebody dies without a will:

        Without a will, everything a young adult owns will likely be subject to probate court and eventually passed on to their parents according to state statute. Some children may be fine with this, but others may prefer that a sibling, stepparent, stepsibling, significant other, friend, or somebody else receives their belongings.

        A charitably minded young person might also be interested in making a gift to a cause they are passionate about.

        Even if a child has only one specific item they want to leave to someone at their passing or only one person they wish to receive all of their assets, this could be enough to warrant a will.

A will also allows someone to name an executor to settle their affairs. The executor distributes a person's money and property—both digital and nondigital—based on the instructions in the person's will and can be granted power and control over their online accounts. This power allows the executor to perform tasks such as deactivating social media, email, and gaming accounts; accessing and paying online bills; and transferring and sharing digital content and account access.

If a person does not name an executor in their will, the court will appoint one for them. Unfortunately, the chosen executor may not be their first choice.

Debt is another point to consider. Young adults aged 18 to 23 have an average debt balance of nearly $10,000.[3] Inform your child that debts are part of an estate, just as much as their money and property are. Debt that cannot be paid off from what they leave behind will likely be forgiven and will not be transferred to you or other family members. However, acknowledging what happens to our debt upon death can be part of the estate planning discussion.

A Will Is a Big Step into Adulthood

When a child turns 18, they may be eager to show off their new adult status. Creating a will is one of the things that only a legal adult can do. While it may not rank high on their priority list, they can benefit from knowing what a will is, how it works, and why it is important.

Talking about wills entails broaching the topic of death, which could discourage your child from taking the next step. But when they are ready to take it, they should have a foundational understanding to build on and a trusted advisor they can turn to for advice. If you would like to meet with us and your soon-to-be adult child to discuss the importance of an estate plan, please don't hesitate to call us.

Contact Hartmann Law Today

If you have questions about young adult planning, please contact our office to speak with an estate planning attorney.

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[1] 2024 Wills and Estate Planning Study, Caring.com, https://www.caring.com/caregivers/estate-planning/wills-survey (last visited Aug. 27, 2024).

[2] Id.

[3] Megan DeMatteo, The Average American Has $90,460 in Debt—Here's How Much Debt Americans Have at Every Age, CNBC (Nov. 14, 2023), https://www.cnbc.com/select/average-american-debt-by-age.

About the Author

ANGELA RICH HARTMANN

Angela Rich Hartmann is a New Jersey attorney serving clients in the areas of estate, business, and real estate law.

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